Every day I write to 100,000+ grandmas about the things we don't always say out loud: grandkids who grow too fast, phone calls that end too soon, and the small joys that make it all worth it.
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We grandmothers sometimes worry about the strangest things before seeing our grandchildren. We wonder whether our hair looks tidy, whether the house is clean enough, whether we have gained a little weight, or whether we…
A grandchild may not say, “I need you.” These 11 quiet clues can help you notice an invitation to connect—and respond warmly without prying.
Most grandmothers do not wake up in the morning thinking, “How can I boss everyone around today?” Usually, it comes from love. We want our grandchildren to use good manners, make wise choices, stay safe,…
Grandkids may grumble about Grandma’s house rules, but a few warm, reasonable expectations can create the familiar rhythm that makes a visit feel like coming home.
Every grandmother wants the same thing: for her grandchildren to be safe. We buckle their seatbelts, remind them to wear sunscreen, ask them to text when they get home, and worry when they don’t answer…
A loving home can still feel unfamiliar to a grandchild. These eight inexpensive changes can make visits more comfortable, relaxed, and welcoming at every age.
Every grandmother wants her grandchildren to feel loved, accepted, and safe. We often enjoy being the soft place they can land after a difficult day. But sometimes, without even realizing it, our kindness can accidentally…
Most grandmothers would never intentionally make one grandchild feel less loved than another. We love each of our grandchildren deeply, even though we may have different relationships with each one. One grandchild may call us…
Being a grandmother is full of wonderful routines, birthday calls, holiday visits, hugs at the front door, and hearing about school or work. Those moments can happen over and over again. But sprinkled throughout your…
Most of us have a picture in our minds of the kind of grandmother we are. We may see ourselves as loving, supportive, generous, fun, and always ready to help. We remember the gifts we…
There was a young teacher named Olivia who loved writing down her goals. At the beginning of every year, she bought a brand-new notebook. On the first page, she wrote everything she hoped to accomplish.…
Over the years, I have shared quite a few jokes in my emails. Some were clever. Some were cute. Some made me laugh far more than they probably should have. And then there were the…
I used to think taking care of my health meant doing the obvious things. Eat a little better. Drink more water. Try to walk more. Get enough sleep. Take a regular vitamin when I remembered,…
Children may not always remember every gift we buy, every meal we cook, or every piece of advice we give. But they remember how we made them feel. They remember who looked up when they…
The train station was unusually quiet that morning. Emma stood on the platform beside her grandfather, neither of them saying very much. A suitcase rested between them. Emma had accepted her dream job in another…
Grandmothers often believe the biggest memories come from expensive gifts, special trips, birthday parties, and carefully planned family traditions. Those moments certainly matter, but they are not always the ones that stay closest to a…
There may come a time when your grandchild looks at you and admits, “I have no idea what I’m doing with my life.” Those words can be difficult for a grandmother to hear. We want…
As grandmothers, we have lived through enough mistakes, disappointments, and difficult seasons to know that a little wisdom can save someone a great deal of trouble. That is why advice often comes so naturally to…
One of the greatest joys of being a grandmother is finding the perfect gift for your grandchild. Whether it’s a birthday surprise, a holiday present, or simply something that reminded you of them while you…
Having a big family is one of life’s greatest blessings. It is also, if we are being completely honest, a little bit like running a small community center without the funding. There are birthdays to…
Most adults would never intentionally make a child feel small. We encourage them. We tell them we love them. We buy the birthday gifts, clap at the school events, and proudly show their photos to…
There is something about bedtime that makes words feel a little different. The house is quieter. The day has finally slowed down. Even the busiest grandchild has a few moments where their thoughts are not…
