Every day I write to 100,000+ grandmas about the things we don't always say out loud: grandkids who grow too fast, phone calls that end too soon, and the small joys that make it all worth it.
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Many of us spend years learning everything we can about our grandchildren. We learn their favorite foods, their hobbies, their fears, their dreams, and the names of their friends. We pay attention because we love…
When we think about summer, we often picture sunshine, family vacations, ice cream, swimming pools, and carefree children making memories. But if you’ve raised children yourself, you know the reality is often a little more…
For many grandmothers, hearing a grandchild’s voice is one of life’s greatest joys. Whether your grandkids live nearby or hundreds of miles away, phone calls can become precious moments of connection that strengthen your relationship…
As grandmothers, we carry decades of experience. We’ve made mistakes, learned difficult lessons, overcome challenges, and gathered wisdom along the way. Naturally, we want to share some of that wisdom with the grandchildren we love…
As grandmothers, most of us never set out to make conversations uncomfortable. In fact, the things we bring up repeatedly usually come from a place of love. We ask questions because we care. We offer…
And Why You Should Put Effort Into Letting Them Know One of the most difficult parts of being a long-distance grandmother is realizing that your grandchildren may only know a small part of who you…
When families live far apart, everyone experiences the distance differently. Grandmothers often carry a unique kind of longing that can be difficult to explain. We love our grandchildren deeply, and when miles separate us, we…
As grandmothers, we all wish we could shield our grandchildren from every disappointment, heartbreak, and difficult moment they will face. Unfortunately, that’s not how life works. There will be days when they struggle with friendships,…
One of the sweetest things about being a grandmother is finding little ways to remind your grandchildren that you’re thinking about them. The good news is that you don’t need to spend a fortune to…
As grandmothers, we spend a lot of time looking forward to special moments. We circle birthdays on the calendar. We count down to holidays. We eagerly await graduations, weddings, family reunions, and major milestones. There’s…
One of the bittersweet truths about being a grandmother is realizing just how quickly childhood passes. When our grandchildren are little, it often feels as though there will always be more time. More summers to…
June is a wonderful month. School is winding down for some grandchildren, summer adventures are beginning for others, and the longer days give us more opportunities to connect with the young people we love. One…
As grandmothers, many of us assume there will always be another opportunity. Another visit. Another family dinner. Another birthday. Another phone call. Another quiet moment when the timing feels just right. But life has a…
As grandmothers, we sometimes look at our grandchildren and wonder why they seem so stressed, anxious, distracted, or overwhelmed. After all, many of us grew up without smartphones, social media, or the endless stream of…
One of the saddest parts of growing up is realizing how many children quietly carry heavy thoughts they do not know how to talk about. Sometimes grandchildren seem happy, playful, and carefree on the outside…
There’s something deeply beautiful about a marriage that has survived the many seasons of life. A long-term marriage has usually weathered more than outsiders could ever see. It has survived financial struggles, illnesses, disappointments, sleepless…
Being a grandmother is one of life’s sweetest roles. We love fiercely, worry deeply, and often want nothing more than to protect our families from pain, mistakes, and hardship. After all, many of us have…
There is something incredibly touching about giving a grandchild a piece of your love that they can return to again and again. Long after toys are forgotten and trendy gifts lose their excitement, the deeply…
There is something magical about a child carrying a tiny reminder of grandma’s love wherever they go. It may sit quietly inside a backpack pocket, rest at the bottom of a jacket, hide inside a…
Some of the strongest bonds between grandparents and grandchildren are not built during huge vacations, expensive gifts, or grand celebrations. They are built quietly. They are built in sleepy morning hugs, late-night conversations, tiny routines,…
There are certain lessons we wish our grandchildren never had to learn. As grandmothers, we want childhood to feel soft, magical, and protected for as long as possible. We want our grandkids to believe the…
There’s something incredibly meaningful about spending one-on-one time with a grandchild. In a busy family filled with siblings, cousins, school schedules, and distractions, personal time with Grandma can feel rare and precious. And often, it’s…
