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As Grandmas, staying connected with our grandchildren is all about finding common ground and having fun together. One delightful way to bridge the generational gap is by learning and using some of their slang. Not only will this show them that you’re interested in their world, but I bet it’ll also give you a few laughs along the way.
Here are eleven currently trendy slang words that will make your grandchildren find you more relatable.
1. Lit
Definition: Extremely exciting or fun.
Example: “The family barbecue was lit!”
Using “lit” shows you’re in the know about what’s hot and happening. Whether it’s a party, a fun event, or even a great meal, calling it “lit” will definitely impress your grandkids.
2. Fam
Definition: Short for family, but can also mean close friends.
Example: “I’m so glad the whole fam could make it to the reunion.”
“Fam” is a warm and inclusive way to refer to your family and friends. It’s a term that your grandchildren will use often, so picking it up will make you feel closer to them.
3. Goals
Definition: Something that is aspirational or worth striving for.
Example: “You and Grandpa have been married for 50 years? That’s goals!”
This word is often used to express admiration for something or someone that sets a high standard. Using “goals” to compliment your grandkids can make them feel proud and appreciated.
4. Savage
Definition: Cool, but in a bold and fearless way.
Example: “You finished that whole puzzle by yourself? Savage!”
“Savage” is a playful way to acknowledge someone’s confidence or skill. Using this term can add a bit of fun and humor to your conversations.
5. Squad
Definition: A group of friends who are very close.
Example: “I had such a good time shopping with my squad today.”
“Squad” is another word for a close-knit group of friends. Referring to your own group of friends or even your family as your “squad” shows you’re up to date with the latest lingo.
6. Slay
Definition: To do something exceptionally well or to look amazing.
Example: “You really slayed that outfit today!”
Using “slay” as a compliment shows you appreciate when someone excels at something or looks great, adding a modern flair to your praise.
7. Rizz (My Grankids Use This One Most Often)
Definition: Someone with good charisma.
Example: “He’s got so much rizz; everyone loves talking to him.”
“Rizz” is a fun way to acknowledge someone’s charm and social skills, making it a great term to use when you want to compliment your grandkids on their personality.
8. It’s giving
Definition: Used to describe the vibe or atmosphere, with the meaning inferred from the situation.
Example: “Your new decor is giving cozy and stylish.”
This phrase allows you to express your impressions in a trendy and vague way, which your grandchildren will find amusing and relatable.
9. IYKYK
Definition: If you know, you know.
Example: “That inside joke from our trip last year— IYKYK!”
“IYKYK” is a shorthand way to refer to shared knowledge or experiences, perfect for creating a sense of insider connection with your grandkids.
10. Tea
Definition: Gossip or interesting news.
Example: “Come on, spill the tea! What happened at the party?”
“Tea” is a lighthearted term for gossip or news, and using it can make conversations about everyday happenings more engaging.
11. Sus
Definition: Suspicious or suspect.
Example: “That story he told sounds a bit sus to me.”
“Sus” is a quick and easy way to describe something that seems off or questionable, and your grandkids will appreciate your modern take on skepticism.
Bonus Tips for Using Slang
- Practice with Confidence: The key to using slang is to be confident. Don’t worry about getting it perfect every time; your grandchildren will appreciate the effort.
- Ask for Help: Whenever I have been unsure about a word, I always ask my grandchildren to explain it. This has often lead to fun conversations and learning opportunities. Try it!
- Mix It Up: Don’t overuse slang. Sprinkle it into your conversations naturally to keep things fun and engaging.
- Stay Updated: I have personally noticed that slang changes quickly, so ask your grandchildren to keep you in the loop about new terms. They’ll love being your personal language coach!
Learning new slang words has been such a blast for me—it’s helped me really connect with my grandkids and strengthen our bond. I bet if you give some of these words a try, your grandkids will be over the moon! There’ll be plenty of smiles and laughs, and who knows, you might even teach them a few cool new words. Here’s to deeper connections with our grandkids. Happy chatting, fellow grandma!
